We have all done it. In a hurry, we race out of our neighborhood faster than we should, until the neighbor who use to be a crossing guard shoots us an unforgiving look while giving us the universal sign to slow down. It is not in this annoying, judgmental way that I am saying to you--to us all--slow down. Rather, it is like a devoted wife who sees you are missing half of your life. She realizes that your drive to serve someone else’s vision stops you from experiencing the qu